Colin,
I tested my 2017 Ateca very simply with a voltmeter plugged in to the 12Vdc power socket (the old cigar lighter).
In solo trim the voltage varied between 11.5 and 17.5 whilst driving around.
With the caravan attached it is a steady 14.2V so the factory fit towbar electrics cleverly defeat the "smart" alternator.
I have heard other people who do not have the correct software trick the alternator in to working continuously by driving with headlights on.
By the way, you were quite right to query the original poster about a new car as that was also my first thought. 